Soapbox

  • The Number 32

    I turned 32 last Monday – and since I had an amazing pre-birthday Vegas getaway the weekend before (because I had to get the “party” side outta the way), I was happy to spend a birthday at home for the first time in 9 YEARS. It was a chillaxed day of manicures, pedicures, and my…

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  • “I’m leaving on a jet plane” …and I’ll be back when I can afford to live in NYC without a roommate. On Friday, I left my beautiful Upper East Side apartment and came back to the West Coast for a much-needed sabbatical in Seattle (technically Bellevue, but New Yorkers always assume I’m referring to the…

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  • I think it’s safe to say our new president’s transition into office has been… rocky, at best. And since I’m a female minority with a college degree who has lived abroad for several years, it doesn’t take a genius to figure out that I’ve never been part of the Trump bandwagon. But instead of placing…

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  • As I tackle this year’s stack of Christmas cards, I’m reminded of what I keep hearing nowadays: “I never send Christmas cards.” “Nobody sends letters anymore.” “Nobody cares about that stuff.” “Email is better.” Yeah, no. I don’t care if I’m part of a dwindling population. I will always believe in the importance of handwritten…

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  • After a yearlong hiatus from podcasts, I couldn’t keep my trap shut about this topic. I had to speak out about this, because I’m so tired of individuals ironically calling the #BlackLivesMatter hashtag “ignorant” when #AllLivesMatter was literally created because people couldn’t UNDERSTAND the original slogan. It’s like calling Newton’s law of universal gravity ignorant…

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  • Harambe’s Code

    What a good looking boy. This is Harambe – a Western lowland silverback gorilla who, as most of you probably know by now, was shot and killed at the Cincinnati Zoo after a 4 year-old boy climbed/fell into the gorilla enclosure on Saturday. Harambe had just turned 17. There’s already enough information circulating the internet…

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  • I Did Nothing

    I did nothing to deserve this – Her. Her love. Her strength. All the cuddles and affection, All the bandaging my pains. Her dreaming of me before I was born, Being all that she visualized. My soul was in a crap shoot And I won the ultimate prize. I did nothing to deserve this –…

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  • Birthdays are always a good time for reflection. Being a “personal development” nerd, I’m always listening to podcasts and journaling, trying to figure out what the hell is wrong with me and/or how I can better myself going forward. One barrier to happiness I finally noticed is this: I always look at the past as…

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  • As much as I want to win a Grammy for songwriting someday, I don’t watch the Grammy Awards. And one of my best friends, an actress, avoids the Oscars like the plague. There’s so much shadiness, politics, and general corruption involved with award shows that I can’t really bring myself to watch them anymore, and…

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  • My Grown-Up Christmas List

    ‘Tis the season, everyone! I just finished writing out my Christmas list; but this year, it’s different. Rather than listing out a bunch of “stuff” that I’d like to receive on Christmas morning, I have decided to make a list of several different organizations that I will be donating to during the holidays. From monetary…

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